Wednesday, January 27, 2010


I learned a lot this week about secret haters. These are the people that proclaim to be on your side i.e. friends, family, loved ones - who, if you let them keep talking, you will realize that they hate on you. I just thought of Jill Scott's song - Hate On Me - as I typed that statement. It is so amazing to me how people are so envious, jealous and evil to people they pretend to like. It shocks me everytime because I'm not built of that cloth.

I have to go back to my grandmother's words of wisdom - don't let folks know what you are doing cause they are going to try to stop you from reaching your goal. Now don't get me wrong - what's for you is for you or rather what's for me is for me. There are folks who will try to get you off track because their life is not where they want it to be. So their challenge is to get you to be angry, gossip, or procrastinate from your mission. You must be alert.

I am so happy that I have realized this early on. I have been listening to folks lately who in their talk are just negative and unhappy. I don't even think they really realize it themselves. But I have.

My advice today - beware of secret haters. Start listening more carefully to words of others and it will be revealed. The truth shall come to the light. God Bless.

1 comment:

  1. You are so right Pat. I believe I spoke early on about a project I tried to work on where the people turned on me.